There are so many things we wish we were told before we did anything in life but the truth is that it is our experiences that help us grow as a person. One of the lists I seriously wish I knew was about loving someone. I was stuck with a man who continued ruining my love life until I met my husband. But I felt that I had wasted a lot of time on him. Read on to know what you think about it.
He should have a practical sense too
Him mooning around me, pampering me and being there for me when I cry was great! It was something we read so much about in Mills and Boons. I idealised men who would beam on seeing their love but what I did not see or realise was that he was not practical in life. When you love someone you see him as a lifelong partner and you think that “Qayamat Se Qayamat tak” is marriage goals or relationship goals for that matter. Yes, love makes you lose all common sense, but it is very important to see other aspects too. Is he clingy? How independent is he? Does he understand the concept of space? Can he function without you? Can he run a household in your absence? All these matter and I regret not seeing these things in the man whom I loved before I turned 30.